Boyfriend of 3 years has a secret obsession with cosplay girls and giving them money on patreon, is it micro-cheating feeling nausea in the morning – guyq by askmen

My bf gives $50 a month to more than 1 cosplay girl on feeling nausea in the morning patreon and has started receiving gifts from them for his feeling nausea in the morning contribution. Now. I’m all for supporting the arts but it seems to feeling nausea in the morning me that it’s more of an obsession than for support. I don’t know why but I feel utterly betrayed. It blew up in his face at the beginning of feeling nausea in the morning the month when he received a package from one of feeling nausea in the morning them when I was home. I stayed calm and gave him ample opportunities to be feeling nausea in the morning honest with me, I just wanted to have an open discussion about it. He kept saying how it was from a different girl feeling nausea in the morning than it actually was from, he refused to let me even see the front of feeling nausea in the morning the package, and lying like I’ve never seen him lie before saying how it’s from his friend that he told me about and feeling nausea in the morning he gives her $5 a month and it must be from the holidays. In reply I said “that’s an awfully thick and big package for $5, you never told me about your cosplay friend. I’ve asked before if you’ve given money to girls online, you said no. And it’s the beginning of may, the holidays were months ago.”. So I did my own research. He follows some patreon only instagram and it was too feeling nausea in the morning easy to find this girl’s patreon from just this instagram. . Not only did he lie to me about who it feeling nausea in the morning was from but how much he paid her every month feeling nausea in the morning and how often he looked at her and gave her feeling nausea in the morning money. He has been “supporting” her since 2016, the same year we started dating. He would also ask me questions that I thought were feeling nausea in the morning a bit out of context for certain situations and it feeling nausea in the morning turns out it was to comment on her posts to feeling nausea in the morning sound like he knew what he was talking about to feeling nausea in the morning get her attention. He comments about how hot she looks all of the feeling nausea in the morning time and receives personal snaps/messages/photos/letters from her all of the time because he is feeling nausea in the morning a top contributor. When I confronted him the next morning, his whole argument changed. He said that “he has worked hard he’s whole life to get where he is and he feeling nausea in the morning will buy whatever he fucking feels like buying with his feeling nausea in the morning money and that it’s none of my business.” he said that he straight up doesn’t care that he lied to me because I don’t have the right to know that stuff about him. But the thing is, is he has always lied to me about this shit. I’ve asked before if he gives money or talks to feeling nausea in the morning other girls online and he always says no. Another thing that freaks me out is that he is feeling nausea in the morning 30 and this chick he is crazy about is 23. My boyfriend thinks he is being sneaky by not liking feeling nausea in the morning or commenting on anything from her instagrams but he is feeling nausea in the morning obsessed with talking to her privately or on patreon. I’ve become slightly obsessed as well with checking this girl’s patreon every day to see if he has liked feeling nausea in the morning or commented on any of the posts. I can’t see if he comments on more expensive posts but feeling nausea in the morning I know he is liking every single one. Plus all of those private messages and snaps and live-streams and pictures and letters that only him and like feeling nausea in the morning 3 others get to have. I feel betrayed, honestly. My trust is broken and my mind is constantly swirling feeling nausea in the morning about what he is doing on his phone now and feeling nausea in the morning I feel like I can’t talk to him about it because of how much feeling nausea in the morning he blew up at the beginning of the month. Plus, we live together and he has gotten very fucking good feeling nausea in the morning at hiding EVERYTHING he receives from her which makes me feeling nausea in the morning so much more suspicious. I don’t trust my boyfriend anymore and I don’t know how to address these serious concerns I have feeling nausea in the morning now. Any words or advice would be so appreciated. Is giving a good amount of money for attention from feeling nausea in the morning women online cheating to you? I’m so lost at how to go about this.

But it is being controlling, you are telling him that he can’t spend his own money the way that he wants feeling nausea in the morning to. It doesn’t matter what the reason is or if your disagreement feeling nausea in the morning with his actions is entirely reasonable. For what it is worth, I agree with you that a guy in a relationship feeling nausea in the morning should not be doing this. But you can’t force him to make decisions or to cease actions feeling nausea in the morning because you don’t agree with them. We had a saying in the army that the army feeling nausea in the morning can’t make you do anything but they can make you feeling nausea in the morning really sorry if you don’t. The same applies here.

He has made a decision for himself that he will feeling nausea in the morning continue with his actions despite your vehement objections. That is his choice. It is entirely your choice whether you want to terminate feeling nausea in the morning the relationship, and he doesn’t get to tell you that you can’t do that because he doesn’t control you. We are each of us responsible for our own actions feeling nausea in the morning and the resultant sequelae or consequences.

I look at this in the same way that I feeling nausea in the morning see people who send in money for astrology or psychic feeling nausea in the morning readings, people who just have to have 18 cats, people in cults, doomsday prophets, and well, you get the idea. I would never date a cat woman, mostly because I can’t stand cats and I see the actions of some feeling nausea in the morning pet owners, especially mulitiple cat owners, to border on lunacy. But that’s just me. My attitude would be unfathomable to them and I’m sure my opinion would be reciprocated by them. Do I get to tell them they are wrong? No, I just wouldn’t want to be with them.

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